When Follow Through Falls Through Cracks

As a Master IEP Coach and ADHD Coach, I see so many difficulties for our kids with ADHD in school.  It is a misunderstood neurobiological medical diagnosis that can impact our kids in so many ways.  It’s so important for support for not only the symptoms of ADHD but many times for the area of executive deficits.  In order for this child to attain stated goals and elevate his self-esteem, it’s important to ensure adequate support in the school.  

The vicious circle ensues as their weak executive functioning skills impact their success.  Executive functioning includes cognitive skills like initiating a task, planning, organizing, time management, self-regulation, and working memory.  Many believe that if the child only tried harder, they could succeed.  Unfortunately, this is untrue…and as the child continues not to be able to follow through with expectations, they lose confidence and self-esteem, leading to failure.  It’s at that point that the child then does not try hard…because he feels incapable.

Once the IEP, Individual Education Plan, is in place, it is imperative that there is structure put in place in order to both ensure that it is being followed and it is effective.  This is where I see so many support systems in place fall apart.  It is sometimes difficult to get this support accepted by the school.  But that is half the battle once its there.  Here are some points to ponder to prevent the IEP from falling through that crack…and with it, the child.

  1. Individualize!  Schools many times put modifications in place that are not specific to the child and his struggles.  You, as the parent, are part of the team and can contribute a great deal in the area of your child’s needs.
  1. Determine, at the time of the meeting, how often modifications will be assessed to determine efficacy.  What will be the specific time frame of assessment and who will be doing them?  Minimally you should receive quarterly reports around remediations and modifications.
  1. Who will you the parent speak to during these times in order to determine signs of success or needs to tweak supports?  Will it be each teacher or a member of the child study team?
  1. What will be the mode of communication?  Is everyone in agreement that email works best?
  1. Make sure that all of this follow through is documented in the IEP.  This is a legal document and has to be followed.

As you the parent moves through this journey, make sure that you keep everything documented.  In addition, it’s important to write a letter after this meeting, stating what you believe was discussed and agreed upon.  The expectation is that the school will respond with confirmations and anything in question.

Your child knows that you are his true advocate.  Positivity is so important to our children with ADHD.  Knowing that you are in his corner reinforces his confidence.  Use this journey to also encourage self-advocacy.  He knows the best as to what is working and what is not.  He, too, needs to learn how to save himself from that “crack!”

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